Why is it that some children can speak, but they are completely silent in nursery or school? This condition is known as ‘selective mutism’. Not all children with selective mutism are the same, but experts agree that many of them are highly socially anxious. Some researchers suggest that it is helpful to think of selective mutism as an intense phobia of speaking. Just think about a phobia of spiders and how intense that can be! If you have a phobia yourself, you may understand just how powerful this can feel. A child with selective mutism may physically feel their throat close up. The thought of speaking can provoke such a strong anxiety reaction that the child then avoids speaking in this setting altogether. So how does a child with selective mutism feel about this condition? Children have used the following words to describe their feelings: “over-whelmed”, “isolated”, “anxious”, “upset”, “scared”, “worried” and “invisible”.
Before considering that a child may be selectively mute, it is important to rule out some other possible reasons for them not talking. A Speech and Language Therapist can help with this.
How to spot selective mutism
- The child does not speak in one setting, but they do speak elsewhere
- The child may appear shy, withdrawn and socially isolated
How a Speech and Language Therapist can help
The Speech and Language Therapist’s role will include some of the following:
- Speaking to the child’s parents and teacher, to find out their views and concerns
- Communicating with the child, to find out their concerns
- Observing the child at home and at school
- Assessing the child for other speech and language difficulties
- Working together with the parents, child and educational staff to create a step by step therapy plan
- Working with the child using behavioural techniques
- Advising parents and educational staff on how they can help
- Onward referral to other professionals
More information
- The website Talk4Meaning aims to support speech, language and communication and has a section on selective mutism – http://www.talkformeaning.co.uk/selectivemutism.php
- The Selective Mutism Information and Research Association has an informative website – http://www.smira.org.uk/
- A book for parents and professionals: Johnson, M., & Wintgens, A. (2001). The selective mutism resource manual. Bicester: Speechmark.
- An online pdf document: Johnson, M., & Wintgens, A. (2010) Selective Mutism: Planning and Managing Intervention with Small-steps Programmes This is available from: http://www.selectivemutism.org/resources/library/Treating%20Professionals%20Information/SM%20Intervention.pdf
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